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Former Enemies, Former Friends
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| Best at : Competition |
Worst at : Love |
The aggressiveness of both these partners is likely to mask or supplant this relationship's more intimate aspects. Verbal and even physical encounters arc likely, especially between young siblings and friends. Combative attitudes may be sublimated into healthy competition, or simply expressed in ironic and sarcasm banter Put-downs of this kind can he dangerous if they result in a lowered self-image, which becomes more probable when parents or teachers utter them to their children or students. Both parties will need to be to survive in this relationship, but a realistic attitude urges those who can't stand the heat to get out of the kitchen.
Love affairs are likely to be scorchingly intense, even destructive. If the partners can get out of this relationship psychologically intact, they will go on to future liaisons wiser and more experienced. In marriage are unlikely to be able to agree on who is boss, or to make the necessary compromises. Air-fire combinations like this one (Gemini being an air sign. Leo fire) can be dangerously explosive, with outbursts of anger ion. But if the anger is suppressed, a Leo III depression may result, or the Gemini 1 may escape into or drink The use of sex as an outlet may work for a while, but will ultimately prove frustrating and One solution is for each of the partners to establish an inviolable supremacy in their own important life areas, and to limit their shared activities to mundane ones that do not require strong leadership.
Friends and work colleagues may be former rivals or competitors whom mutual respect and changing for-have washed up on the same side. These relationships may also go in the other direction, however, with respect disappearing No one would describe this relationship as "nice"—no love seems to be lost here. Yet it is honest and candid, and its partners wouldn't want it any other way. Their mutual dislike of pretense and phoniness underline this point.
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Translate combat into competition. Play by the rules. Your enemy may he a friend in disguise. Agree on areas of expertise. Minimize stress.
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In Association with :
The secret language of relationships
by
Gary Goldscneider and Joost Elffers
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